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    moonpig

    hey guys,

    so im having a little trouble at school. im starting to hang out with this new group who can be kind of mean when theyre making jokes, and they make fun of me a lot. they make fun of each other a lot but im definitely being made fun of more than anyone else in the group. theyre usually pretty fun and they always let me hang out with them but im worried that they just want me around so they can make fun of me. i don’t have very many friends and im worried that i’ll be all alone if i don’t talk to them anymore. any ideas on what to do?

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    cookiemonster

    Don’t ever try to fit in by knockin everyone. Find new friends if they are being mean to you. Maybe you should tell them you don’t like it when they make fun of you, maybe they don’t realize they are bein mean. Maybe not everyone is making fun of u,, maybe there are other people who don’t like it to. They might not realize they are hurting u.

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    RugbyHead5

    I think that the problem that you are experiencing is very common when entering a new social group. It is usual for a new group member to receive more insults because the current group members are subconsciously testing your ability in the group. You said that they talk to you and don’t mind you ‘hanging out’ with them so I would just give it some more time until you become a more solid member of the group. It is only because the rest of the group have been friends for longer and have just learnt how to become more tolerant with each other and know what will hurt or embarr their friends, they therefore know how not to hurt one anothers feelings.

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    Comicnerd14

    Try not to react over it. If they see they have upset you they might do it even more. Laugh it off and pretend you dont care. Don’t act worried. One guy in one of my cles used to make fun of me, I hated it but I started agreeing with everything he said and he just got bored trying to annoy me and moved on to annoyin someone else.

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    TweetyPie

    I think you should tell them its bothering you and see if they stop. If they don’;t stop, like if they are doing it on purpose I would leave them and find new friends or other people to talk to.

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    James

    Don’t ever try to fit in by knockin everyone. Find new friends if they are being mean to you. Maybe you should tell them you don’t like it when they make fun of you, maybe they don’t realize they are bein mean. Maybe not everyone is making fun of u,, maybe there are other people who don’t like it to. They might not realize they are hurting u.

    Dont worry you will settle in soon and everyone will realise what a wonderful guy you are!

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    Anonymous

    Don’t ever try to fit in by knockin everyone. Find new friends if they are being mean to you. Maybe you should tell them you don’t like it when they make fun of you, maybe they don’t realize they are bein mean. Maybe not everyone is making fun of u,, maybe there are other people who don’t like it to. They might not realize they are hurting u.

    I agree with cookiemonster, they might not even realize that they are being mean to you. maybe talk to them or the guy your closest to and see if they are doing it on purpose. if they are it might be good to hang out with new people.

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    Mandy Milkovich

    Do not be afraid to be yourself. Friends are people who love you for who you are. Maybe being made fun of is not that bad and this is only you who sees it bad. bigpaperwriter.com/blog/the-problem-of-cyber-bullying-written-down-within-an-essay here is some good reading to distract you from negative thinking. Think positive and by the way, it is a great deal being able to laugh at yourself. People appreciate it too, you know.

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